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Season 2 • Episode 40 • Rejection, Abandonment, And The Origin Wound With Vienna Pharaon
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The Sabrina Zohar Show Season 2, Episode 40: Rejection, Abandonment, And The Origin Wound With Vienna Pharaon
On this week’s episode, Sabrina chats with Vienna Pharaon, a licensed family and marital therapist. They delve into the concept of origin wounds and explore how childhood experiences shape our lives and influence our relationships. Vienna talks about how unresolved pain often manifests as patterns in our daily lives, and urges us not to get stuck in the past but to acknowledge and understand it Watch The Sabrina Zohar Show Season 2, Episode 40 Rejection, Abandonment, And The Origin Wound With Vienna Pharaon in HD free online. Enjoy high-quality streaming of The Sabrina Zohar Show Season 2, Episode 40 and share your thoughts in the comments below!
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